Hey Dolls and Studs!
I know it has been a while that I have not had a Blog post...since January to be exact! Sorry I have been gone for so long but I needed some time to get my thoughts and better information together for all of you to enjoy. I honestly do not think it is best to just throw a bunch of words out if it has no meaning, so I waited until I was ready to get back to blogging.
Having self confidence, the will to not give up and dedication is the sexiest thing anyone can have. Today I made the choice to whip myself back into shape and get back on top of my blogging. On that note...let's begin here and discuss Sexual Confidence and taking charge!
1) When a woman knows what she wants: There are times when it may seem like the woman you are with is unsure of what she wants but in fact it is completely opposite. She knows exactly what she wants but may not know how to express herself or may be afraid of rejection or that her partner is not or will not be on the same page. It could also mean she does not hold the inerest with who she is currently with. Sexually every woman is aware of her likes and dislikes, if you are in the dark about it, it may mean you both need to have an important conversation that can go either way for the relationship. No matter the end result it is best to be true to yourself and partner, this way you are happy and closer to living your sexual life the way you want and live happier than keeping it in.
2) Grabbing your sexual life by the balls: Once the truth is out on your sexual wants/needs and your partner is on board, it is time to let your confidence show. Prepare a night where all guards are down with no judgements on both sides. Do the things you have been holding back from doing. If that means dressing the part, talking dirty, tying your partner up and taking control for a while (with consent of course) then do it! You won't ever know how anything actually is until you have experienced it first hand.
3) Analyzing your confidence and control: So it is the following day and you were confident and brave to take actions on your desires, now what? Well, the hardest part already is behind you and now you have taken control of your sexual life. Having a conversation about what took place is ideal at this point. This way both (or more) parties can discuss the things that worked or would like to try differently next time, if there was anything. It is okay if everything didn't play out as you imagined because some things can not be controlled 100% of the time. If things did work out, then you are one lucky individual and should have no problems with future conversations on fulfilling any other desires. It is as rare as finding "THE" spot the very first time with someone but it is possible and one of the best feelings in the world.
4) What you want is not with your current partner: Many relationships consist of a couple that are settling, afraid of being alone, convenience, together for the child(ren) sake, or a list of many other reasons. Sometimes what once was is no longer and the feeling has faded. Having the confidence to speak out about what you want is always preferred, even more so when sex is a very important part of successful relationships. Not saying it can't be without sex but honestly it is very important to have that connection with someone who understands you in all ways. So if your current partner is not what you want/desire or they can't won't fulfill your wants/desires then it is time to move on. Life is too short to not be happy and enjoy every thing it has to offer. Have the confidence to take control of your well being, emotionally, sexually and otherwise.
I hope this helped someone who is currently in this situation and always remember...Be Confident. Be Sexy. Be You.
I am a mother of 4 intellectual children. I started in this niche back in 2006. For a long time I have wanted to make Pinkii's Lingerie Room a business where I can provide different options from competing shops. Making it as affordable as possible without taking away the glamour and sex appeal we all long to feel at the end of a long week. I hope you enjoy the new luxe website with memberships, monthly catalogs, courses and more. I strongly believe in women being strong, independent and confident. In this blog there will be advice given from questions and topics many have either asked or may not be aware of. I'm always more than happy to help and educate others who could use the information.